Information for Parents Everybody Loves Raymond Parents Need To Know Read Less Message Despite all the bickering that goes on in the Barone family, it's clear that there's a lot of love there, too. Violence People get angry and yell a lot, but they don't hit. Sex Sexual innuendo and jokes. Discussion of adult relationships (Ray does a fair amount of badgering Debra for sex), but only kissing is shown onscreen. Language One character likes to say "holy crap." "Damn" has been used as a positive remark. "Hell," "ass," and "bastard" are sometimes used. Consumerism Not applicable Drinking, Drugs & Smoking Infrequent drinking by adults.